1. Leave a sexy love note in his underwear drawer. When he finds it the next morning, he’ll get a kick (or a rise) out of it.

2. Use a heart-shaped cookie cutter to make a light imprint on a slice of bread before you put it in the toaster. It comes out Valentine toast! Maybe even fill in the heart with red strawberry or raspberry jam!

3. Change the banner on his cell phone to say “Your Wife Loves You!” or “Gee, You’re Sexy!”

4. Rather than complaining about something he didn't do, notice when he does something without asking and THANK him for it with a big hug and kiss. Everyone loves to feel appreciated.

5. Get a box of Red Hots and make a trail from the front door to the master bedroom for when he comes home from work. No doubt his curiosity will prevent him from getting sidetracked with mail and phone messages until AFTER he discovers his red hot wife at the end of that trail!

6. Look up what sporting events will air between now & Feb. 14th and record one on your DVR. Then on Valentine's Day, tell him to relax with some snacks and watch the game while you relax in a bubble bath and give yourself a personal spa treatment. Who knows what will happen when you're both done?!!

7. Plant a piece of his favorite candy on the passenger's seat of his car with a note that reads, "Thanks for being so sweet!"

8. Use your lipstick or eyeliner to draw an arrow from any body part to any other body part, with instructions to your hubby that read, "Kiss me here!"

9. Create a coupon book of romantic dates and/or sexual activities, redeemable any time he's ready. Make the last coupon "fill in the blank" style, so he can name his pleasure.

10. I’ll let YOU fill in the blank on #10 – join our blog at www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com and post YOUR great ways to say “I love you” to your Valentine!

Isn't marriage GREAT!!!??? Thank you, God, for such an incredible blessing, and for freedom to enjoy each another so completely!

Wishing you lots of heart-racing romance and shameless sex in your marriage,
 

Shannon Ethridge, M.A.
Author and Advocate for Healthy Sexuality & Spirituality
www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com
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