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Get Ready to Float Your Valentine’s Boat!

The Valentine-count-down clock is ticking, Ladies! With only hours left, it’s time to come up with some wonderfully creative ways to say “I LOVE YOU!” to your man. Here’s a few ideas to spur you on:

  1. Leave a sexy love note in his underwear drawer. When he finds it the next morning, he’ll get a kick (or a rise) out of it.
  2. Use a heart-shaped cookie cutter to make a light imprint on a slice of bread before you put it in the toaster. It comes out Valentine toast! Maybe even fill in the heart with red strawberry or raspberry jam!
  3. Change the banner on his cell phone to say “Your Wife Loves You!” or “Gee, You’re Sexy!”
  4. Rather than complaining about something he didn’t do, notice when he does something without asking and THANK him for it with a big hug and kiss. Everyone loves to feel appreciated.
  5. Get a box of Red Hots and make a trail from the front door to the master bedroom for when he comes home from work. No doubt his curiosity will prevent him from getting sidetracked with mail and phone messages until AFTER he discovers his red hot wife at the end of that trail!
  6. Look up what sporting events will air between now & Feb. 14th and record one on your DVR. Then on Valentine’s Day, tell him to relax with some snacks and watch the game while you relax in a bubble bath and give yourself a personal spa treatment. Who knows what will happen when you’re both done?!!
  7. Plant a piece of his favorite candy on the passenger’s seat of his car with a note that reads, “Thanks for being so sweet!”
  8. Use your lipstick or eyeliner to draw an arrow from any body part to any other body part, with instructions to your hubby that read, “Kiss me here!”
  9. Create a coupon book of romantic dates and/or sexual activities, redeemable any time he’s ready. Make the last coupon “fill in the blank” style, so he can name his pleasure.
  10. I’ll let YOU fill in the blank on #10 – join our blog at www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com/blog and post YOUR great ways to say “I love you” to your Valentine!

Isn’t marriage GREAT!!!??? Thank you, God, for such an incredible blessing, and for freedom to enjoy each another so completely!

Wishing you lots of heart-racing romance and shameless sex in your marriage,
-Shannon

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  1. Deanna February 13th, 2010 10:09 am

    My husband’s number one love language is Words of Affirmation. I wrote out 100 things I love about him, put them in a container with 100 Hershey’s kisses and a prescription to take one of each a day and then come and collect a real kiss.(or more!thankfully his number 2 is physical touch which is my number 1) It was great watching how he lit up as my words affirmed things in him. We were both disappointed when the container was empty! I may have to do it again! Thanks for the new ideas Shannon. Enjoy your Valentine.

  2. Donna February 13th, 2010 2:49 pm

    Lay a 20 second kiss on your hubby when he comes home. Do you know how long 20 seconds is!?!

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