Comments on: Oral Sex: Is it a one-way street at your house? http://www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com/blog/2009/05/oral-sex-is-it-a-one-way-street-at-your-house/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 20:08:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Jim http://www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com/blog/2009/05/oral-sex-is-it-a-one-way-street-at-your-house/comment-page-1/#comment-11688 Jim Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:36:06 +0000 http://www.sexuallyconfidentwife.com/blog/?p=245#comment-11688 It did not start out that way but over time the blessing of giving was all mine. To compound the situation she said she stopped giving oral sex because once I climaxed that was I was "useless" to her for intercourse. How that came across to me was as long as she got hers, all was right in the world. And there's no discussing it -- she refuses. The last few times she did give oral sex it was with the enthusiasm of someone walking the blank. Then she wondered why I lost my erection. So ladies -- here's the rules: To get you must be willing to give If you don't like giving -- and I can respect that -- you need to get that established up front and not while you're in an oral-sex induced afterglow Don't do it as a reward -- like for not watching football all day. Do it because you want to give your man the same pleasure he is willing to give you. It did not start out that way but over time the blessing of giving was all mine. To compound the situation she said she stopped giving oral sex because once I climaxed that was I was “useless” to her for intercourse. How that came across to me was as long as she got hers, all was right in the world.

And there’s no discussing it — she refuses. The last few times she did give oral sex it was with the enthusiasm of someone walking the blank. Then she wondered why I lost my erection.

So ladies — here’s the rules:

To get you must be willing to give

If you don’t like giving — and I can respect that — you need to get that established up front and not while you’re in an oral-sex induced afterglow

Don’t do it as a reward — like for not watching football all day. Do it because you want to give your man the same pleasure he is willing to give you.

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